December 21, 2020 | 40:13

15

Can We Talk?

Featuring

Tim Harkness

Sports Psychologist and Author

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Tim Harkness Episode 15

What do cricket and investing have in common? A lot more than you think. Join Hugo and Simon for a conversation with Tim Harkness, sports psychologist and author of 10 Rules for Talking: An Expert’s Guide to Mastering Difficult Conversations, and hear how his rules can help improve your personal and professional lives—and your cricket game.

SHOW NOTES

00:48 Host Hugo Scott-Gall introduces his guest, Tim Harkness.

01:27 Hugo and Tim start with a consideration of the topic of Tim’s book, 10 Rules for Talking.

03:29 A key problem area in conversation is disagreement, which generally triggers alarm and raises challenges.

04:22 Hugo and Tim talk about biases and heuristics, with Tim introducing both Daniel Kahneman and Jerry Kline.

06:33 There needs to be interaction between intuition and method.

07:46 Hugo asks about how people can be trained in these concepts.

08:20 Tim draws on three examples: investing, sport, and his scuba diving instructing.

08:48 He shares about the need for athletes to anticipate if-then scenarios.

10:38 In sport, you’re usually better off responding intuitively; there are some differences in scuba diving and business.

11:56 In the situation of soccer and use of time, how does Tim think about the interaction between strategic and intuitive elements?

13:31 Hugo and Tim consider science and data in sport.

16:43 Pricing risk is where biases come in, and we as humans need objective information.

21:02 Which sports are most similar to investing (or vice versa)?

21:25 Both investing and cricket are highly measurable, but also not completely controllable.

24:16 Will a sports player listen to psychological help on risk pricing and performance optimization?

25:15 The first challenge is to correct our binary concept of risk; once this correction is made, people tend to get interested in what Tim has to say.

27:18 Tim shares his thoughts about Rick Di Mascio and his paper “Selling Fast and Buying Slow” and considers the popularity of the paper as evidence that the people are interested in the ideas.

28:24 Before concluding the conversation, Hugo asks if Michael has heard of Brunello Cucinelli.

19:31 Hugo points listeners to a past episode with Tom Ricketts, in which Tom shared about the importance of character.

31:02 Do morale and team spirit make an impact in connection with what Tim has been sharing about?

34:31 When working with teams, what are the key steps in Tim’s role as a performance psychologist?

36:42 We need a chance to talk about what matters to us and our values.


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